Two big changes are coming all at once.
My daughter’s engaged to the boy, now a man, with the big truck with the Bible on the seat and the beautiful smile.
The one she woke me over 7 years ago to say. ” I’ve found him!”
And half asleep in the dark, I knew she was smiling.
I thought a long time that night of the sweet, determined confidence in her announcement.
And now, I see her tender smiling tears and I am joyously overwhelmed. To see her in love and preparing to wed, an answered prayer and blessing.
A year away but feeling like it’s tomorrow and tomorrow is feeling too soon.
Too soon for happy, teary, joyful goodbyes
Goodbyes covered in prayers of blessing and “Don’t forget I love you’s”.
My tomorrows for now are spent intentionally reminding of love…mine and God’s and of being weepy at unexpected times in my day.
My daily text messages of scripture continues, but my focus is intentional to show a more blessed me and a joy-filled temperament…one that shows, not just speaks…one that lives out what I have spoken so long.
“You are a blessing to me”.
Still, the thought of a house without my daughter and my son moistens my eyes.
Weepiness is not really me.
But it is my heart and they are my heart, my soul.
So, in the meantime there are ways to move towards this time of the coming tomorrows.
Like standing in the center of their bedrooms after they’ve left for the day lingering in the quiet, yet noisy messiness of their stuff.
Art and antiques on my daughter’s walls, bed made just so, heirlooms of her grandma’s, dried flowers from Benji, Bible, journals and massive amounts of clothing filling her closet.
Down the hall, sparse and organized, my son’s room, a guitar and flags, hoodies, hats and an overabundance of shoes lined up in orderly fashion
College acceptance letters neatly stacked on the corner of his desk. A lone blue folder, silver letters in marker “Citadel”.
Last week, I dropped him off for “Pre-Knob” overnight at The Citadel.
He turned the corner and walked alone under the canopy of oaks.
His posture was that of a man, broad shouldered, briskly walking towards his future.
I felt it.
I saw it in his steps, a readiness to decide his future.
So, I fell behind a distance and I let him go.
And I know…they have been taught along the way.
Teach your children to choose the right path, and when they are older, they will remain upon it. Proverbs 22:6